Let your flower bloom....

My friend did an art show all about the things you wear that make women feel powerful... very nice interviews and interesting statements. I've been thinking lately - what are the Things I Do that make me feel powerful?

In this past year, there is a long list of the things I do that give me strength. But for this blog entry, I want to focus on the fun and importance of jilling off or watering your own flower. It's amazing to know how to get yourself off and I know that it makes me a 10x better lover for others. It's pretty liberating and amazing to know that you can take care of yourself in this way. For some reason the topic is taboo and women aren't supposed to explore their abilities in this arena at all.

Somehow our culture has evolved to allow men open discussion of their sexual needs and supports them taking care of their own needs when need be. For women however, we pretend they don't have the same needs or at least should be quiet about it. We need to let go of some of our puritan past and embrace getting to know our bodies as well as we can - we only get one round!