A couple times this week I've tried a new approach to situations. Instead of playing peace keeper and crowd pleaser - I've been asking for exactly what I want. I Stopped playing silly games of being shy in the face of uncomfortable situations where I could easily get frustrated with people's lack of intuition. I usually drop social clues and hope people pick up on them.
When I sit back and realize that I already know what I want to happen - it's magic. Grow a pair of ovaries and ask for what may seem taboo. What happens? Well, this week - you get what you want!
Just like I feel uncomfortable speaking up and asking - other people usually feel even more awkward about saying no. Oh humans and all their complexities!
Three cheers for being bold, asking for what you want - and then claiming your prize!
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